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My Naggings 2009.11.17 Tuesday 泣けない
Personally, I appreciate kindness in assisting colleagues work.
But, Ms ahem, who offered her help I think 1 mth back was not at all helpful.
Next week is the audit, my very kind colleague ask me questions bit by bit.
And fabulously, instead of doing the filing and compiling as she goes.
She takes little little pieces of paper to clip on the the whole stack and asks me where are the documents.
IMO, if i were to hand you each and every document.
I think I do not require any assistance at all.
It's definitely not a difficult task. But to be very objective, perhaps she has her own style of doing her work.
Not accepting anyone's opinion is her forte.
Also to add to her forte portfolio, asking why she can't do it her way, asking me 4 weeks from CW36 is it CW40?
I have no intention at all to judge her.
And to add on to all the madness, she got into another "wack" with my colleague.
It was a simple thing of creation of new customer in our system, there is a form to fill and some documents to furnish.
AND FYI, FILLING UP E FORMS AND FURNISHING DOCUMENTS IS NOT HER TASK.
But being as helpful and nice she is, she filled up the form, gotten my other colleague who closed the sales to sign. And without any documents, asked my finance colleague to create it in the system.
The finance colleague then in return ask her for the documents, which she gave no answer for yes or no. Then after one week, she asked the same question to my finance colleague. Have you created the customer yet?
This time, being the third time she asked. My finance colleague den ask her, where are the documents and told her i am unable to just create using the information. And you wanted me to create the same terms as the XX company.
(actually the "new cust" is a sister company of XXX)
Therefore, she innocently felt she was the middle party between the colleague who closed the sales and the "demanding" finance colleague.
IMHO, I do not feel at all pity for her.
I felt she is such a pretendious person, if you felt that its not your scope at all.
You have a mouth to say it, do you expect people to say yes they will create after you ask 3 times? duh~
And you felt like you are a victim? well, SHIT YOU. If you did not act smart to "HELP" the colleague who closed the sales to fill up e form, do you think the shit will be in your court?
It's not a matter of miscommunication. It's your attitude that created this mess.
You want to be well liked by everyone? Well, wake up and smell the roses.
Life is not sweet at all.
In some part of the world, one person may look at you and decides they don't like you. What you gona do about it?
To make matters all worst, I feel if you really wanted to help.
It is really NOT THAT HARD to TYPE WWW.XXX.COM.SG to read up some ABOUT US information about XXX company.
IF you know how to surf the net. I think you could do it.
It's all about your attitude in work.
I hope you stop complaining, stop thinking you are doing a lot of work.
Truth is, you are incapable of handing a simple task.
